It’s ironic how we don’t pay attention to small minor things in life and keep stressing about other things that seem a lot more important to us. Small random things which happen on a daily basis are ignored as either mundane or trivial aspects of our daily lives.
Looking around myself I see so many people all the time stressed out about something or the other. They are smiling and laughing only on the outside, they are happy just for a moment after which they go back to stressing more about stressful parts of their lives. We all live under the false pretence of how happy we are, how cool and awesome our life is, we have so many friends, that we are active on social networking sites, while there is something deep rooted in each one of us which stops us from sleeping peacefully at night unless we are exhausted from heavy work load of the day.
The things bothering us range from personal to professional aspects such as not having a special someone, marital plans, a better job, a promotion in office, a big exam one needs to crack or issues with friends or family. The stresses we take about these things make us so unhappy from within that despite our best efforts of staying happy we are never content and truly happy at the end of the day.
Its not that we are actually faking it, it just happens unintentionally we truly start believing we are fine for the most part of our day. But there is some stress factor always nagging at the back of our minds. We read a joke in our phones, smile or laugh for a few seconds, we laugh with friends or family for a while, or we may smile at random small things, then go back to worrying about those stress factors.
Its true success is important, no doubt all those stress factors be it personal or professional life related are extremely important, but the thing is constant worrying about them in the back of our minds isn’t doing anything to help resolve those issues other than making us unhappy and releasing negative energies in the environment. While worrying about all the so called important things we are wasting precious moments of our daily life which should be cherished.
We all come in this world, live our lives and die, some of the things we are so worried about are remembered by the world and some forgotten but the beautiful moments we laughed with our friends or family, or the times we cried on a friend’s shoulder, the times we did something special for someone, etc etc will be what makes our lives worth living and remembering. These small random things which happen every day happen for a reason, we should cherish them and be truly happy even if its for short while. All our worries will solve themselves by our actions on them not this constant stressing. So how about we just think on what to do to help matters and save rest of the time in enjoying small random things of our everyday lives.
After all why wait until we are rich and successful to be happy when being happy is free and so easy!!!!